Assalamualaikum
I have found someone that I want to marry inshaAllah. I am at a crossroads. She has recently relocated to another country and found herself a lucrative job. My earning potential in that country is not enough to provide her with a suitable living premises that she is currently dwelling in on her own income. She is not prepared to move back to our home country where I have communicated that I will be able to look after her, give her a dwelling, food, clothes etc. InshaAllah. She is of the opinion that I could come to live with her(in her dwelling) and look for a job where I can provide for the family but is happy for me to live on her means until that is possible. I am feeling overwhelmed by the situation as I feel it is not my obligation to do that however I want to make this work and marry her.
Is she being unreasonable? Does this mean we are not compatible? Should I accept that I cannot provide for her according to what she wants and tell her to move on? Or is this something that I could consider given the circumstances?
Please help with any and all advice.
May Allah guide us all ameen.